He goes into parking lot looking for her car, gets offended when she talks to other men, walks past me, his daughter, to hug her, etc. do i let it play out, if she backs off it will throw him into a tailspin. He waits daily for her to show up/He is very anxious when she is not around. I am up there almost daily, but i am the caretaker, not the social person so it seems I don;t count right now. i can deal with that, but his behavior towards her is becoming an issue. Other residents are staying away from him now because they think he is having an affair with this woman. She is wonderful and kind, by the way.