Last week when I visited, he announced that he is gay and had lived this double life as a gay man while married to my mom, who is now deceased. This week, he named a person from his past, whom he claimed participated. He also made other inappropriate sexual remarks to me about wanting to have sex with someone. I have no way to know if any of this could be true or to verify it, but much of what my dad says is not true and some of it is delusional. I have not mentioned this to his AL facility so far, I think he's only said these things to me. He is on some medications for mood currently for some episodes of aggression a few months ago, and that seems to be controlled well. Has anyone here ever experienced or heard of this type of thing? It was unsettling, to say the least.