Dad staying in my family room since ER visit from fall 1 month ago. We are leaving for vacation in 2 weeks and arranged for respite care for 1 week at a nearby assisted living facility. Now he is refusing to go. We have been arguing all morning that he wants to go home, he will be careful and he will be happier there. I am trying to tell him this isn't all about him. That it is our family vacation, there is NO ONE here for him while we are gone. (He has no friends or other relatives). We told him he could go back to condo when we get home. He is still yelling, cussing, and arguing with us. I really am just so tired of it and don't know how to deal with him. I am an only child.