We are struggling as a family trying to find the best ways to handle this situation. My dad can't hold his bowels and bladder in and ends up leaving stuff in the hallway and bathroom. Even if he does manage to hold it in, he wets the entire toilet and surroundings.
We have bought extra towels for him to clean up after himself, slippers and floor mats so he doesn't drag the pee to the entire house, tells him to sit on the toilet to pee instead, nothing works.
We don't want to nag or make him feel unwanted. We recognise that he feels embarrassed and hides it with excuses. He's also showing signs of Alzheimers but he refuses to get it checked. What should we do? We're desperate.