My Mother's cousin is in good shape but lives over 800 miles away from us. My mother and her go a long way back and keeps in touch with mother frequently. Her cousin would like to share the responsibility of caregiving. My mother would like to spend time with her before she leaves this earth. Mom is currently in a NF and will need alot of supervision which I cannot get even with the services she does have. This question came up with Mom before she got to this point and she thought that I was giving up on her. She does have a contagious disease and I don't want anyone contract it. Personally, I don't want to contract it either. So, I have stayed a distance from her too. She is so mad it me for staying away and does not realize how dangerous this is and wants to come home.