I live in Calif. I have a Brother that lives near,but Mom is difficult, and he went over as little as possible. He has done grudgingly for her for about 12 years. He recently fell,can't do anything. Moms 90, and lives alone. The house belongs to my Brother and myself. I'm 68, he's 61.Im Bi-Polar,take medication, I've gone to the same Dr. 14 years. She is starting in with Dementia. I went back lat fall and was shocked at her condition, Her Sister and best friend passed the year before. It really affected her Mentally. I called her 3 times a day.Most of her friends have died, and relatives.she doesn't get calls any more, or visits. I want her to move here, Should I.She doesn't want to. Were on Social Security. Oh and while I was in Ohio, I told my Brother off (about Mom). He won't talk to me. Any Help?