Mom is in a NH thousands of miles away. First visit she asked for help to go to the bathroom. She wanted me to stay while she tried to have a BM. There was no odor but the mere thought of it sent me wrenching. I just about threw up and had to leave to get a NH employee to help. I am so ashamed that I couldn't deal with it. Never had kids but can clean up after my pets without such s reaction. Just wanted to know if others have faced this. I'd it possible that some people just can't do this no matter what? I felt so bad.