My mom has MS, is 69, and was just given too high of a dose too quickly of muscle relaxers that she was sensitive to and had a bad reaction. She is now bedridden and unable to move. She can lightly squeeze my hand and can't speak. On Saturday I saw her and she was going around in her scooter, talking and playing with her grandchildren. Now She cannot swallow and has not eaten or drank anything since Saturday, Sunday is the day the reaction happened. She had an iv fluid bag at the ER yesterday. Now the nurse and dr are pushing for her to go to a hospital about an hour away to see if she can more help. Her living will states that she doesn't want an iv or feeding tubes. I ask her if she wants an iv and she doesn't squeeze my hand yes. This breaks my heart so much. I see single tears come out of her eyes when i tell her I love her. Please reassure me I am doing the right thing by not sending her. My mom and I are the only family where we are. I have three kids and my husband is deployed and I am having a hard time. As I am sure my mom is. I can't stay with her like I want. Please give me advice. I feel like she is so alone. She is in a nursing home and hospice should start helping soon.