Mom is in a memory care facility with various activities 3 times a day and acording to the staff, she enjoys herself. But she forget now ten minutes after, so when I visit her, she says she is bored. Now she calls me to say that I have let her down, tht I don't come to see her anymore ( false evidently! I even give her balloon or any other trinket for her to remember I was there). So even if I know she forgot as soon as she hang up the phone and goes to her activities, how can I cope with the sadness and the guilt?