It is a lost cause getting my sister to help me with my elderly parents. She helps in no way whatsoever, but the annoying part about it is that I have resentment that she has not stepped up to the plate and done even the bare minimum. I read a quote recently that has helped me somewhat. It states "One can only be angry with those he respects". To be honest, I have lost a lot of respect for my sister for her refusal to help me, but how do I make peace with it within myself? My sister is very nice in other respects, and possibly she does not realize how hard it's been on me being the sole caregiver for our folks, (since she has never been in my shoes), but I just want to move on emotionally from my negative feelings. How do you cope emotionally if you have a sibling(s) that have left you with the full responsibility of caregiving?