My Mom has Parkinson's and dementia and is restless. She has escaped to outside the building at the nursing home she's in twice. They said she has to go, that they can't be responsible because they are not a locked unit. They've helped me find a new spot and I think it will be nice (better, safer). But I don't know how to broach the subject with Mom so that she wants to go. She wants to leave the place she's in but to go home or on a boat (fantasy scenario in her head). Even if she doesn't want to go, she still has to. What should do?