My parents are 89 and 90, both living in their own home. My father refuses to think about moving to assisted living, but my mother is in fairly declining health. He is her primary caretaker. He is becoming increasingly angry with me for not helping more (I am a single mother working full time), yet refuses to discuss moving to an assisted living facility. He expects me to help more, and to be their primary resource. I am becoming increasingly resentful of the situation, as I am already stretched to the limit.
Any suggestions on to show him that an assisted living facility is better than their current situation? He doesn't want to go live with 'old people'.