My MIL is being stubborn. My FIL needs care now. My FIL has been in and out of hospitals/rehabs/ PT facilities for 2 years now. My MIL is being very stubborn and insists they live at home because she ''can take care of him''. She has proven several times she cant. How do we make sure he gets the care he needs? They do not have they money for home care so they must sell the house etc to pay for it. My brother in law has remodeled his nice home to accommodate them but SHE refuses. It is putting him at risk. We don't want the state getting involved. an suggestions?