I took my mom for a visit of the adult day care facility in my area. My mom is legally blind and has some dimentia. She got very upset during the visit and started yelling "I want to get out of here" and then began crying. Her visit time was about 1 PM and we were out of there before 2 PM. She keep staying that I wanted to get rid of her and that I was dumping her there.
It took another 5 to 6 hours to claim her down. Last night she was up 4 times after we put her to bed.
How do you help you mom overcome the fear of being dump (as she expreseed)? How do you rid yourself the guilt of hearing your mom express herself in those terms?