She still lives alone and actually manages OK. She lives in Calif. and her son (my husband) and I live in Utah. She recently fell and has a really bad knee (water on it etc), has a pacemaker, got robbed, crdit cards maxed, they even wrote checks and cashed them) So it is time to move her in and take care of her. She says " NO WAY am I moving" She is very stubborn, but all I can see is her health/safety deteriorating. We have a 5 bedroom house, I've even made an area just for her, like a mini apartment. I am so frustrated and afraid, I need to get her out here. Can we force her? I'm pretty sure we can't but what can I do? What steps can I take? We've tried the sweet talk, and a little threatening-not working.