My Mom, soon to be 89 lives in her own home. As her closest daughter, I find that I am doing more and more for her (and feel guilty when I don't/can't). She is financially able to hire any help she needs but refuses to do so. I also have a disabled son (not living with me) who requires my help. I am a widow, retired, and just feel pulled away from living my own life. Can anyone suggest a way to convince Mom that I just can't keep this up and she needs to hire someone? I feel that my Dad left her well off precisely because he wanted her to be able to live as well as possible. Thank you all in advance!