We have tried to convince her to move to a retirement community. I have taken her to places, her excuse it is not in her city. She is 88, healthy, but does not want to drive anymore, but wants us to take her to doctor appts., continue to tend to her household breakdowns because she does not know what to do. This has been going on for 32 years since her husband died. She has 4 sons and only (1) which is my husband lives in town. Please help. How can we convince her it is time to move? It is creating much stress in our marriage over this.