We have been taking care of grandma for the past six years. She has moderate/severe Alzheimer's, vascular dementia, multiple strokes, and diabetes. Her most recent stroke has left her entirely paralyzed on her left side and she is unable to hold her head or body upright. She has been in adult diapers for about a year, and was able to transfer to the toilet when needed about 50% of the time. Our problem is she still wants to transfer to the toilet, but even when there are two of us available, she cannot sit on the toilet, even when propped up. Does anyone have any good or creative ideas to convince grandma to use the diaper?