Dad is a young 70, plays golf 2-3x's a week. His fiance' is an old 80 in poor physical health. Dad is in 50K in debt and not paid. I just think it would be best for them to live together but she is pushing to marry quickly. Honestly, I just don't see this as a good match. She is going to end up needing more care than he can give and I think he will resent it later. I know there is nothing I can do and I am staying out of their business, but it hurts to make him make another bad decision when it comes to women. I just think its better if they live together and then if it doesn't work out no harm done. A little encouragement would be nice from the forum. I know it is none of my business. Is it true that seniors that marry, it can really mess up medicare, their insurance, social security and put a more financial burden on them as a married couple than if they lived together.