I prepaid a funeral out of my sisters pension and social security moneys and she is in nursing home on medicaid and I am her conservator she has been in and out of nursing home after several hospital stays and her moneys have been sitting in limbo as she had to spend down her moneys to be resubmitted to medicaid.
I would contact an elder care attorney to help you with you financial issue. When you are dealing with financial matters it is important that you get the most updated legal information in your particular area of residence. Wish we could help you more. Good luck.