I have many siblings. The oldest child is the POA for my mom. Everyone does not agree on her care and it is so frustrating. The POA makes the final decisions and she does ask for opinions but not of everyone. She will ask the siblings who are proactive; those who help, call and visit my mother. She does not call the others. We are not all close and often argue. The number of telephone calls that end up in arguments and shouting make me ill. Sometimes one person will accuse the POA of telling one or two persons but not the others (as though she's keeping secrets). I have asked the POA sister to email everyone regarding my mom and that way everyone has the same information and if you want to ask a question it can easily be replied to. Everyone has a chance to express their opinion without the shouting, etc. Is this a good idea?
Thank you for your opinion.