My husband has POA for his mother after a slight stroke. He's concerned about her money lasting because she has gone from her home, to an assisted living home, to now a board and care. She has retirement and SS dollars coming in, but does not nearly cover the cost. Also funds from the sale of her house make up the difference currently. This has been a long 15 years since the passing of my father in law, the last 3 the worse for my husband as far as caring and arranging care for her with advancing Dementia. It is affecting his health as she is demanding, spiteful and is determined to live to 100 she is now 89 with no major health issues, but her body is breaking down. She had a quadruple by pass 14 years ago and still ticking with no diet or exercise changes. She has given my brother-in-law a substantial amount of money over the years, he has a daughter with major health issues, and also co-sighed student loans for his son. I feel this will be a mess when money runs out with the 5 year look back.