Hello. Should I choose a long term care nursing home for my 94 year old mother that is close to me (3 miles away) and clean and modern but not the best rated but decent, so I can easily visit and make sure the care is good, or one that is farther away (20 miles) but is rated top notch 5 stars and don't have to worry so much about the care?
My mother has beginning dementia, just got over pneumonia in the hospital, stenosis, hard of hearing, arthritis, depression and anxiety. I assume the dementia will get worse.
I'd like to visit daily for a few weeks to make sure she is ok, then visit every other day.