My husband and i had no choice but to begin care for my mother around the clock now our marriage of 43yr is ending because of mom. We had to relocate from PR and currently staying with our son an pregnant wife my mom would not come without her dog cat bird my son has 3 dogs my husband vet has stage 5 scirosis of the liver (exp to agent orange in VN)and I care for both of them they both accused me of favoring one over the other my mom has dementia arthritis MS Diabetes and loosing her sight and is unable to walk she only feeds herself. im in the process of getting a home for all of us but not having any luck everything is to high. Im at the point where Im loosing my patience had a panic attack since I cant deal with the arguments no time whatsoever for me to be by myself dont get much sleep since I constantly check on my mom to make sure she is still in bed and with my husbands shaking leg syndrome and there are the dogs trying to gt at each other please reply to my letter and advise me of how can I resolve this. I love my mom but i love my husband too and he needs me to care for him. how do Choose?