How do you deal with the children trying to threaten abuse charges even when no abuse is going on and they have had full access to home and father all along? I have tried being as open as possible but it is just getting uglier and uglier as far as the implications of abuse and neglect. They also imply that their dad does not get enough time out socializing without me. He has impaired vision and does not drive so I am his primary transportation. I do at times drop him off or wait in the car so that he can visit freely.