I am a finanacial planner and was brought in to evaluate the following situation...elderly woman living in her home with her grown son, son's friend and her grandson all living with her. The son's friend is the elderly woman's caretaker preparing meals, assisting with her toileting (includes diapering) and bathing etc and being paid $2900/month. None of them pay rent and they only pay for internet service and "overages" on any of the household utilities (expenses that increased since they all 3 moved in). I'm looking for comments as to the "fairness" of this arrangement as some other family members think that the hired help isn't payig their fair share. Any thoughts?