I strongly dislike my father-in-law and I suspect my husband knows this, although I have not discussed this with him. I have really struggled with this and am begining to get a bit depressed. I feel guilty and angry at the same time.
To say he is difficult would be an understatement. There are so many familial issues that leave me menatlly burned out: alcoholism, abuse to my husband's mother ( she is deceased ), infidelity, etc.. His lack of hygiene is deplorable and he has terrible manners.
I know I complain too much to my husband about all of this, and he I suspect is becoming burned out by this. But, honestly, when I catch the man spitting in the kitchen sink one more time, for example, I think I will lose it.
My main concern is the future. He is still mobile, can drive, and seems to have no signs of dementia. But, he will get worse, as he has emphysema and copd, as well as alcoholism. I really don't think I will be able to do this. Any suggestions? Thanks