Dad is 86 has two forms of cancer. He is currently in the hospital for second time this summer. First for septi this time thought he was having a heart attack. After being in rehab for a month he returned home and it was Hell. Dealing with poop up to my elbows, him calling my name every 20/ 30 mins. He was only home a week before this last trip to hospital. Well we were not getting along so well but nothing out of the ordinary. Next thing I know APS at my door. From what I can tell sounds like he was feeling sorry for himself and saying what a great guy he is and can't understand why we don't like him. We love him but are all exhausted. The hospital wants to put him into rehab but he is fighting it saying he'll go to a hotel and have therapy come to him. ( he can't care for himself) I told his worker I just want what's best for him. But everything is about money to him. I myself have a bad back now due to careing for him. My husband has injured himself lifing him and he dosnt even seem to care. My kids don't bring friends over anymore, heck they stay upstairs most of the time. We stopped eating dinner as a family I think my family got tired of him calling for me all during dinner. He's not calling for me for anything urgent more like he lost the TV remote. I love him and just want to be his daughter not caregiver anymore. What do I do when rehab wants to release him back to me? I'm afraid I'm losing my family by careing for him. He has dementia but plays it off very well. Oh and let's throw felling guilty in the mix. I'm just feeling lost and feel I've know where to turn for help. He has people looking out for him but what about us caregivers who do we have? I know I probly sound all over the place but I haven't had a good nights sleep in months I'm 50 and just not seeing a light. Any suggestions or encougent is greatly appreciated. From a person at the end of the rope.