My husband wets the bed and I've purchased adult size pin-on cloth diapers and plastic pants to manage the problem in order to cut down on the costs of disposable diapers. I have a teenage daughter who helps around the house with various chores, including helping out with laundry. I was thinking about asking her to help with laundering the incontinence garments.She knows about her father's bedwetting and the fact that he has to wear diapers to bed and she is very understanding about the whole thing. Given this, would it be okay to involve her in some way with laundering the incontinence garments. I've heard that there are plenty of children and teenagers that help out in various ways with caregiving tasks and given the fact that she already knows about the bedwetting I didn't think it is much of a stretch to get her to help out. Also, since there are adult children who help their parents in this area I thought it would be okay for her to help. Before asking her to help out do you think I should talk to my husband first?