My younger sister recommend a care taker to live w/my mom to help my mom, who is 83 blind, demetria & has cancer. I was scheduled for leg surgery in April, but b/c of health issues, moved to August, my brother lived out of state, my older sister works the night shift, my younger sister has 3 young children & has a job) My younger sister got my mom to sign a POA in May 2016. We were told by my sister, the caretaker will stay w/my mom 24 hours a day. Not the case, the caretaker has a regular job. Sitters were hired to stay with my mom a few hours during the day. I'd visit my mom in the mornings about 7:30am 3 to 4 days a wk before & 6 weeks after my surgery. I started classes Feb 1@ 7am & begun visiting my mom at 6am, my mom is an early riser, she's done w/coffee & breakfast by 6:30 - 7am. First day I visit @ 6am, I found the caretaker's 5 y/o grandkid digging in the kitchen cabinets, I video the kid & informed my sibs & my 2 sisters said I could have taken the video @ any time. My brother wanted the caretaker gone. Next day I visit my mom at 6am, music is blaring from inside my mom's house. I call the police b/c music loud & no one open the door. Caretaker tells police my sister w/ POA told her to take my mom to her bedroom after breakfast & turn the music up. Same thing happened the next day. I was able to visit my mom at 6am for the next 10 days. On Feb. 14th I was served with a (TRO) Temporary Restraining Order to keep away from the caretaker's resident, which is my mom's house & to stay away from my mom, citing I'm "a danger to everyone in the home" Feb 15 to March 20, I could only talk w/my mom by phone. March 20th the judge dismissed the TRO. Visiting my mom that afternoon, all the sofa seat cushions are removed & on the next day, the chairs from the table are removed by the caretaker, who claimed it's her furniture & she was told by the POA she can do whatever she wants w/her furniture. So me & my kids visit my mom sitting on lawn chairs we brought in. On March 22, the POA demand I stay with my mom 2 days a week from 6am until the caretaker returned at 6pm or 7pm, when I refused, stating her POA can't dictate to me when I can see my mom. The POA, call elderly protection on me, stating I'm causing my mom emotional abuse & physical distress, she filed a TRO against me on March 24th. From March 24th to April 18, I had NO contact with my mom. When I went to visit my mom on March 24th the POA called 911 & told police I was trespassing. I was arrested, which I resisted, the POA told the caretaker to video, so yes, there's a video, now on Facebook, w/me yelling and screaming for help while being handcuffed on the ground, I'm still in shock. Waiting to go to court on the charge. Btw, the sister w/the POA is NEVER at my mom's at 6am, she came w/the sole purpose to keep me from visiting my mom. In the meantime, I filed an interdiction & a petition to be the curator of my mom. The POA sent out text messages to all my family members, stating that I'm taking my mom to court claiming my mom is "TOO CRAZY" to make her own decisions, NOW the whole family is angry & against me. The TRO the POA put on me was dismissed on April 18th without prejudice, because we, the POA & I agreed on my having temporary visiting hours & we will handle everything at the interdiction hearing, May 1st, which was only 2 weeks away. Visiting hours will go away & neither attorney could use the conditions of which the TRO was dismissed, didn't happen. Well, now I'm feeling like I'm living in a nightmare, I said to myself, I need to audio & video record what happens when I visit my mom to help prove my case, part of my case is to prove my older sister & her kids harrasses me during my visits with my mom. On May 1st while visiting my mom, in my mom's bedroom, my older sister insist I leave the room for her to get dress, when I refused, she started to undress in front of me. I started videoing her. I made a funny meme & sent it to my brother, who sent it to my sisters. My older sister didn't think it was funny. A huge argument broke out on May 5, my sister told her kids I video her naked, which never happened. She file TRO #3, she lied, I told the truth & the judge ordered the TRO stay for 12 months, I requested the same, the Judge told me to get a TRO on my sister.
Now, I'm at my house & my nieces & nephews are yelling from my neighbor's yard & the street, videoing me, my house live on Facebook. Now I have a TRO on my neices & older sister. The interdiction & TRO hearing is Tue, May 30. I'm representing myself. NO $$
I don't need to be the curator, I just want to spend time with my mom like I did before the caretaker moved in. I took my mom to CO in 2014, she had signs of demetria then, It was hard getting mom though the airport security. I also have an audio recording of the caretaker being ugly to my mom. It makes me sick, my sisters know I have it but don't want to hear it. I just don't know what else to do. Any Suggestion?