I'm really struggling here! I'm to leave my folks home today travel across country to my where I live. I lost my job while caring for my parents within a week of my leaving. I had time to cover 3wks vacation, and roll over FMLA of which I wasn't going to use unless necessary. I worked extremely hard to find my folks money they didn't know they even had. Get their bills paid up, set up auto pay. Find an in home care giver, get the to doctors, you name it. Anyone on this site knows what I'm talking about. However there have been a lot of hurt feeling, my folks don't even remember most of what my dad has said or done, due to his dementia, my mother has dementia too. I've been here a month and feel like I nuts now. No job to go back to no insurance I've my own medical issues. I'm scared worried and feel terrible about responding in anger to my folks. I've lost everything to come here, they can only grasp it for a short time. What's worse is 3yrs ago I had this all rapped up with a contract on a condo, in an assisted living community 3 miles from where I live, with everything they would ever need, but they didn't want to move. I saw this coming a long time ago, that there living across country could cost me my job, my home, my live, be very expensive to care for them long distance. Today I'm to drive back to what feels like nothing. I'm sad that there is resentment and can't seem to get pass it right now. I don't want to leave like this, hard to pray.