My husband had a stroke last May and I had to quit my job to be with him. Now his mother needs care and my husband is the Agent for Financial and Healthcare for her. She fights us every step of the way. My husband has had me doing all of the work on his behalf. However, I can't care properly for 2 people. Hubby's doctor just informed him that he absolutely shouldn't be his mom's Guardian and that I absolutely can not be a CareGiver for two people. MIL has Dementia, early stages. Hubby is suspected to have early stages of Dementia from his stroke last year. I cannot mentally or physically do both. MIL lives in an apartment 20 minutes away.