I am not medically able to take care of my 75 y.r. old mother and 45y.o. special needs brother. They both are mobile, can feed and dress themselves. My sister lives next door and my brother lives at 5 minutes next lane away. So far, they will not help, give me respite or visit mom (unless they want something). I have a 33 y.r. old single daughter (works full time ) . When I moved in to help mom, she moved in my home to take care of it and save money for her a down payment on house.
I have no problems with her. She always encourages me to leave because my mom is so demanding and manipulating. She never takes a break, doesn't have a hobby, wants a three course meal for dinner everyday.
I have been disabled now since 2006. Had to retire from work after 22yrs . I worked all toll, 30.
I need some info, encouragement, and ideas from those of you that have experienced this problem.
Please take a little time and share.