I am 73 & in a long term relationship with an 82 yr. old woman. We used to have a passionate love life, but I find caregving so overwhelming that I have lost my romantic & sexual feelings toward her. She complains about this all the time. I think one problem is the dependency. I am with her all the time, & she gets anxious if I am out of her sight. The other issue is her incontinence. I hate to say it, but that is a turn-off for me. I am still committed to the relationship & I try my best to take good care of her. She is memory impaired & sometimes irrational, so it isn't easy but I am hanging in there.