I am 58 and have 5 siblings, I gave up riding rodeo and going to the nationals to take care of my dad in 2002. I stayed with my mother for 8 years so she wouldn't be alone till I finally moved to Utah and got back into horses. I was there for 7 years till she wanted me to come take care of her. I moved and am doing this but I need to also pay rent which is caring for her and now my uncle with stage 5 cancer plus all the housekeeping and buying the groceries. I have a 18 year old still home I am putting through college but now with 24/7 care have no income. I recently got married and although my mother is nice and sweet to his face she is constantly bickering to me that she is tired of supporting him. She doesn't support him he is paying our bills and buying the groceries to feed us all. We are going broke paying for everything to take care of the both of them.