This forum has been helpful in the past when I have questions about caregiving. The person I care give now used to terroize me with her teasing, gas lighting, put downs. I have managed to just ignore it and or not give in to it. but now, I am just burned out. The constant questions about her money, her food, guests who want to see her. and now I am just burned out. Her family finds her mean and difficult as well, and I am just contemplating moving out, giving notice, her brothers and sisters always tell me not to let her get to you….and they don't want to get involved. In all honesty it has me rather depressed. any suggestions? A letter to her family?