My marriage is suffering because my husband is now retired (65) and was looking forward to going out together and doing things most retired couples do. I myself am 60 with ongoing medical problems (several herniated discs in lower spine and just days ago tore or ruptured my rotator cuff in the left shoulder) and I am getting so tired of trying to do everything for everyone while suffering through my own pain. We used to go out with our grandchildren (2 boys - aged 13 and11) but can no longer do that because mom needs constant care and can't be left on her own, even for a short while. Not much money for help. If anyone has any helpful suggestions I would be eternally grateful. Thanks so much just for taking the time to read this post.