No matter how much I say or the devastation it causes. Most caregivers don't seem to treat this as a real job. They ack like it's ok to be late, or worse, not show up at all. They always have some big emergency, but I know they're lying most of the time. They know I can't check up on them, and the State doesn't, so they lie. They couldn't get away with this if they worked at McDonalds, or other places. I try to explain how devastating it can be when they don't show up, and they completely agree and swear they would never do such a thing. But, it isn't long until they do it again. They just make up more elaberate lies. I have been struggling with this for many years, and have gone through probably close to 100 caregivers. How can I get around this. I'm constantly training someone new, and it takes everything out of me to train someone. But I'm having to do it 3 times this month, for example. I cannot keep this up. What can I do to make this stop.