I'm caregiver for my husband but I work full-time. He has 4 grown children. I have a part-time sitter. He and I both have been very sick with upper respiratory. I need to go to a seminar for a week in Florida. I took him to the doctor Tuesday morning when doctor's office opened - gave him a shot, more meds, breathing treatments. He's getting better, I think. His daughter will come and stay with him at night and work with the sitter during the day. Now he's giving me the silent treatment. Why should I feel guilty? I go to work and come home. PERIOD. I don't have any life outside of work and home. Not even taking time to exercise. If he makes it next month ... he'll be 92...I'm on 60. I've taken care of him for 24 years. I'm not going to go to the beach, but going to a seminar for my job. Why does he put me on a guilt trip? Is he scared? I'm concerned, but I can't be here all the time. Even if I am and it's his time, it won't matter. How do I get over the guilt?