I had to leave my career when I became disabled with fibromyalgia and depression. It is hard to take care of the responsibilities in my life. For almost three years my sisters and I have done everything we can to care for our mother, but the drama continues and so does the drain. She's moved into two independent living facilities and complains all the time. In her depressed state she calls us almost daily to tell us how she wants to die and we should just shoot her. This overwhelming, and I find myself completely withdrawing so that I can try to deal with my own issues. She's been Baker Acted as well as changed mediciations. She hates therapy. It is unbearable for her as well as the rest of the family who are also distancing themselves. What to do?