I was planning on visiting with my sister who lives three hours away in November, for a weekend. We planned to go see a play, hang out, etc. Last night she told me she invited dad to the play and has purchased the tickets! I told her I was looking forward to some time away from the house by myself and that it bugged me. So now I feel bad, dad is rearing to go and husband says I need to get my feelings under control about caregiving and that its not forever. Been doing this for over a year full time, am I wrong to ask for a couple of days away??