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I am taking care of my mamita ,she is 89"years young,she has more children,Une take of ,her bisneses the others,do not care.I am taken care of her because I love her is only love ,no money, because my sibilisn,take all the money.I left my profession ,licency asthetic,and ,nurcing ass.R. I do speak good two languages ,enghish and espanish.Not very well but I write Italian and French.......I also do not computer . My manita is sick,pain,Tylenol 3 ,3 times a day .Stone in the gall bladder and osteoporosis,and diverculitis.I am beside her all the time ,a do not get out,I have 2 beautiful children they are ,all ready finish university. My husband good young mam.I do not what should ,I do,my Mather ungry ,because she said,I am a bad doughter. Tell me anything it will helping me a lot.if I cousin any trouble ,forgiven me please.Iam desperate ,and I do not what to do. Kisses. And hugssssss. Berica.24 .

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Dios le bendiga. Puede ser muy difícil de cuidar a un padre enferma, sobre todo con una familia joven. ¿Califica su madre para Medicaid? ¿Está cuidando a su mamá en su casa?
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Berica, tu tiene el Corazon de Los Caregivers. Nosotros Entendemos! Es lo mismo con nosotros. No preocuparse, tienes amigos aqui:) xoxo
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Berica, It is a shame that your mother is calling you a bad daughter, it sounds like you are the best one she has. I think I understood most of your question, so your English is good enough. It must be hard to try to be with your husband when your mother scolds you for it. Unless she really needs someone right next to her all the time, you are not doing anything wrong to spend some time with him. If she does need continuous bedside attention, it is not wrong for someone else besides you to watch her for a while. If she gets angry, that is sad, because no one wants their mother to be angry with them. But realize she is the one who is wrong, not you. You don't have to tell her that. You can say, "yes I understand that you feel angry about my taking the day off and leaving you with that other person you don't like as much." She will probably still be angry. But it could be just her taking out her frustration with being sick and in pain and you. It doesn't mean she doesn't love you.
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I can read your Spanish, but I cannot write it well enough. Please don't feel guilty - culpable because your mother is angry. When your children were little, they would get angry because they could not have what they wanted - too much candy. You were a good mother and said NO even when they cried. Your mother is your child now, and she can't be well-behaved - se porta bien - because she is old and afraid and in pain. Sometimes she will be unhappy, and you cannot fix her problem.
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Hola Berica! So, you have un esposo joven?! A young husband? Ay Caramba! Sounds good to me.
Your Mother is hungry-- tiene hambre? What food are you giving her? Que comida? Mas information, por favor. Hugs ( en abrazo, chica) Besos xo
Soy Christina, la gringa, no Hispanic
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I do know what to do. I have not idea of anything.Thank you for written to me ,I seeing you understand ,but whent I ask for help,they cullet ,I they say they understand ,thanks you for that xoxo.,look you understand but you do not want to talk until at get calm dounn.honesty whent I will calm daunt y won't say a nothing ,becouse this is the time.thakns. My children say to me ,I have to read what I write,but if I read,I won sent it "love always .Berica.Iam 58 not 24 .I do not know you,but I sent you hugssssss for your time.Kisses .Me.
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Please help me today. Tomorrow is another day,and I won't tell anything.thankyou,my husband is not young ,my son is 27 ,my doughter 28 ,Iam 58 ,he is 59.,my mama 89.thank you,very much..this is my house ,Iam living here for 35 years,I love Canada I feel more canadienses them Spanish and Italian.love .Me.
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This is my home,only my home,my sister took possession of her house and her bisneses ,in other country ,she is living with me,only becouse a love her.Iam crying becouse she say Iam bad,and I do everything for her,and I mend,everything for her,diaper,shower food ,love,"exasthy what she did for me when ,I was a litter gird.She punish me.
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Yo no sé qué tipo de ayuda puede pedir en canada. Pregúntale a tus hijos que te ayude encontrar ayuda Para tu mamá y para ti.
Nunca te olvide que Dios te ama.
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Hugs to you, Beri24! You are a GREAT caregiver to your mother. It sounds like your mother may have dementia, and may be angry that she needs help.
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