My mom is usually a pretty sweet quiet person but lately she has been VERY mean and saying things that are bad. Before my mom started dementia & getting sick she and I were very close and when I got married my mom started resenting my new husband. I had been a widow for 7yrs. prior to this marriage. And I seen the jealousy through the years but this time she is crossing the line and I do not know what to do AGAIN. That is why I am here. My mom told me the other day that my husband was touching her breasts. I asked my husband and he said he would never do that. I believe him but I dont know why my mom would say these things. I started back to work and hes been the one caring for her now dr app, changing, bathing, pills, etc. because I work 10-12 hr days (I think to get away emotionally). So now I pay my niece to come and shower my mom and my mom told my niece that I was gonna kick my husband out cuz he was touching her and that is why she had to come and start showering her. I'm scared of the things that she can say to people and get him in trouble when all he's done is be there for her when I cannot. He can't work because he was diagnosed with advanced liver disease and he's working on getting his disability. We both quit our jobs to take care of my parents so we lost his life ins. and mine and I don't think that he can get any life ins with his diagnosis now. I'm just angry because now I've lost so much time with him for her and I know she doesn't understand but I'm so resentful toward the whole situation. I'm scared to death of losing him and at the same time have to work so much to at least pay for his burial. I have so much on my plate that I feel like I can't take no more. I don't know what to do. PLEASE HELP.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!