2 hours each time. She has been here 4 times. The first time she came she non stopped talked about herself. She told us that she had a nervous breakdown , told us what meds she was on, and just went on and on and on. The second time my sister told me to go to my room, I am not to really have anything to do with this woman. My sister wants total control. Anyway, the second time, she nonstopped talked again. I asked her what she was supposed do when she was here and she said, play cards, watch movies and keep mom entertained. I put a deck of cards on the table and she did try to play rummy but mom had forgotten how to play. I asked her about scrabble and she said that she was not good with words and I said even 3 letter ones? I put scrabble on the table and she did not even try so I gave them a movie and they watched that. Mom was laughing so that was good. If I sit at the table the woman will talk to me only. So I asked about making meals and she said that she could make a meal. I asked her if she had any good recipes to share and she said well I do not cook. I am like wtf. She said that she does not cook for herself but knows how to cook but I have to tell her what to make, which would be the same stuff I always cook. Borrring. So I guess what I am asking does this woman sound like she is helping mom or just sitting on her butt talking about herself. I am not allowed to really get involved. I told my sister about the first time and that is when she told me to go to my room. I don't know what to do. She won't clean which I don't want her to so I guess I should go out when she is here to get some time away but I am still concerned. Thank you for any advice.