My 91 year old mother (dementia and near blindness) has been with me for well over a year. Her only focus is being in her own home, which is not possible. Believe me, I've looked into all options! WE CAN NOT TALK and she harbors 40 years of resentment for my being away in my adult life. She can't be in her home on her own AND at this rate she can't remain here if I am to survive. Who can intervene and talk/counsel her/us??? It is a totally negative relationship and getting worse by the day. Her doctor has explained her options. She tolerates it in his office and dismisses it otherwise. I'm looking at facilities later this week but don't know how I will get her into one if she isn't somewhat agreeable (and it will have to be via Medicaid). PLEASE HELP!