We normally winter in Florida but my mom had a out patient surgery that went wrong and has spent the last 5 months in the nursing home or hospital. My father is 81 and not in the best of health and my siblings all work so most of the responsibility falls on me. My husband doesn't like the cold weather so he spends much of his time in Florida. Mom is being released from the nursing home at the end of the month and then they will need me more than ever. I feel my husband should be here helping to support me. I helped take care of his mom for 4 years before she died.