In other words, what steps do you wish you and or the person for whom you are caring had taken before things progressed to where they now are? What conversations do you wish you had had, and with whom? What organizational steps do you regret not having taken? What legal, financial or moral obstacles have you faced that might have been avoided?
I am not posing these questions for people to wallow in regret so much as to gather the information together so people can learn from our mistakes. Thanks!