Should I call the agency? She paid careful attention to Mom sitting across from her in an attentive manner, she took Mom to an ice creme social in the facility, is polite and a very sweet person. I don't want her to get in trouble. This might be her first day with the agency. I think they should teach her what her responsibilities are. They might have a standard recommended way of cleaning a LO up after elimination. Mother has not had dirty panties like she had when I got home yesterday in the 2 and 3/4 years I have been with her constantly. Advice. Does anyone think I should talk to the young woman first? Mother could come down with a UTI if left like that. I had to shower Mom to get her clean and she did not want another shower, She had one just the day before and was tired. Mom and I usually get along. We settled with washing her off in bed and showering her today. We usually get along. This was difficult. Advice would be appreciated.