My friend has been caring for parents for 4 or 5 years with increasing responsibilities. Parents won't go to assisted living or allow her to see medical or financial records. She has a husband who has depression had to quit her job because of added responsibilities to parents. 5 siblings won't admit that parents dementia and health problems are as bad as they are. My friend is about to totally give out. Is there anyway she can get them into assisted living without their permission?