EMS tells me he needs to be in nursing home. I can't afford to hire help costly.I can't go anywhere only to store ,drugstore and maybe once in while small stores not far away. He doesn't like it when I walk over to visit neighbors,if I do go to store just to breathe he calls me on cell phone all the while. I cannot sleep any more .I lift and cut his food up,help him dress .put shoes and socks on him..At times he acts like he cannot do by himself but seen him do it. My body is taking ahold on me ..he is 279 lbs and I am 122 lbs all his weight is on me while lifting him up.Most of time he can't get out of recliner or any chair or put his legs up on bed.I am totally brunt out and in pain my own self..Don't know what to do..Any advice for me please!